YES or NO to Pre-Marital Sex? We live in a country where
Honesty and Integrity are underrated but Cricket and Sex are overrated. India
is a country where Sex sells everything, right from a cheap porn magazine to a
big budget Bollywood movie. But when it comes to express our views on a topic
like “Pre-marital Sex”, most of us remain to stay mum. WHY? Everybody watches
porn and everybody wants to have sex, there is nothing wrong with this. Then
why don’t people come out in the open and discuss about sex?
I am an adult and I do believe that I have every right to do
anything as long as I do not cross the line of law. Has Indian government
passed a law which does not permit Pre-Marital sex? No! Then why is the so
called “Moral Police” often found harassing young couples on the pretext of
preserving Indian culture, values, ethics etc.?
Everybody has a life. Sex is a part of life. If two
consenting adults have sex before marriage then what is the Big Deal? According
to which Act, if you have sex with someone before marriage then you have to
marry that particular person? This is not the pre independence era, We are talking
about The Modern India, The India which believes in thinking broadly and
globally. And The Modern India believes that Sex is not a taboo, Sex is a way
to express intimacy and love. Sex does not have to be the synonym of Lust!
There is a vast difference between sex and Lust.
According to the reports and statistics, lack of Sex is the
main reason behind many divorces. So this basically means that Sex creates and
maintains a spark in a relationship. This is applicable for both married and
unmarried couples. How? Now a days, Indians are adopting “Live In” relationships.
If we can accept “Live In” relationships, then can’t we accept that Pre-marital
Sex is normal? Or the Moral Police thinks that couples in a “Live In”
relationship will not have sex?
I strongly support the importance of sex in everyday life
and I say YES to Pre-Marital Sex. Whatever I do behind the closed doors is not
the headache of a third person (as long as I do not disturb anybody). If Sex
can unite two souls, then let Sex do the job perfectly.
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Kindly Note: Virginity is not a valid parameter to judge
someone’s character! This post describes my view on the hot debate “YES or NO
to Pre-Marital Sex”. People differ, Perceptions differ, even Sexual orientations
do differ. So it is not mandatory to appreciate my view! Remember that It is a
Free World. And I sincerely do hope that I have not hurt anybody’s sentiment (excluding The Moral Police) through this post! Sex existed before the
existence of the entire human race, Sex is existing till now and Sex will exist
forever (till the apocalypse though)!
Be faithful, Use Protection, Enjoy Sex! Sex is the best way
to lose those calories :P
This post is a part of IndiBlogger's topic YES or NO to Pre-Marital Sex.
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