Shave or Crave!

Well,i will not lie.Shaving is the most boring part of male grooming process(at least i felt that one year ago).I used to shave once or twice every month.And i was careless about my ever growing stubble.I had never thought about the mentality of girls related with stubble.In my opinion,if the Mundas of Punjab can woo the Kudis with their beard,then obviously beard symbolizes the macho man image.And when i watched Rocket Singh,Guzaarish and Love aaj kal,my belief regarding beard grew stronger.All the top leading actors in beard!phew....that must be the new trend.                                                                                                                                                                                           

OMG!i was so wrong.i realized my mistake when i proposed a girl.She said i cant think about anything till you clear all those overgrown beard.I was taken aback.My theory about beard boomed.My imagination about macho man image crashed.I did not say anything.I came back and shaved that night(after around 40 days).The next day,i met that girl again.I took her to a coffee shop,gifted her a rose and proposed her again.She said,now your beard is gone,so i can focus on your proposal :)
I was happy.So guys,i learned that its too tough to impress a girl with a stubble.Almost all girls crave for clean shaved guys.Keep shaving and keep wooing!No girl ever fantasizes about wolverine,but they love Hugh Jackman. Reason-BEARD!

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Step up your Style Statement

Style often comes with variable price tags.If you have the money,then you are ready to be a Trend setter.
Whatever may be the season or century,you can never go wrong with the soul soothing combination of white
tee/shirt and denim jeans.So i have selected Jack and Jones tee and FCUK smoking jeans(boy,really smoking hot!).

As this is winter season,you need something warm which also adds a charm to your
style.For this reason,Jack and Jones body warmer looks more than perfect(if you have got good biceps,you get a few more brownie points).

Style statement is incomplete without a perfect pair of shoes.US polo casual shoes look cool as well as hot.Try it,you will never regret it.

You can wear a cap if you want to add a tinge of Tom Cruise to your style statement.The Perfect Spy with the FCUK trucker cap.


 A watch is the man's best companion(never be late on a date :P).This ESPRIT watch is designed to lift your spirit up.

Never forget to wear a perfect belt because it adds certain boldness quotient to your image.This French Connection-Mens Square Buckle Belt is bold and beautiful.

Top up your style statement with the perfect glares.And nothing can beat a Ray Ban.

If you want to grab this style statement then visit www.shoppersstop.com now.May your neighbours burn in envy when they see your style statement :P

This post has been written for the contest ‘The perfect festive look’ on IndiBlogger sponsored by Shoppers Stop.


Questions,Questions everywhere,
Not a hint to think.
Questions,Questions everywhere,
Not a second to blink.
Questions,Questions everywhere,
There is no trick.
Questions,Questions everywhere,
No solution even from the Gods of Greek.
Questions,Questions everywhere,
My life is at the brink.
Questions,Questions everywhere,
Now its difficult to suppress my Inner Grief.
Questions,Questions everywhere,
I do not know what i seek!
Questions,Questions everywhere,.....Questions,Questions everywhere.


Jab tak hai jaan,Jab tak hai jaan.....

Tere haath se haath chhodna

Tere saayon ka rukh modna
Tere palat ke phir na dekhna
Nahn maaf karunga main
Jab tak hai jaan,Jab tak hai jaan.....
Tere jhoote kasme vaadon se
Tere jalte sulagte khwaabon se
Teri beraham duaoon se
Nafrat karunga main
Jab tak hai jaan,Jab tak hai jaan.....

My version :
Tere saath bitaye huye pal
Tere saath guzare huye waqt
Tere saath dekhe huye khwaab
Nahi bhoolunga main

Jab tak hai jaan,Jab tak hai jaan.....

Teri bewafaai se
Teri khaamoshi se
Teri aakhri waade se
Teri apni faayde se
Nafrat karunga main

Jab tak hai jaan,Jab tak hai jaan.....


Another chance to fall in Love!

I am neither suffering from hormonal imbalance,
nor do i need an ambulance,
I am just in the midst of a turbulence,
Which everybody is bound to experience,
Even after having loads of patience.....

during heartly violence
Though it makes no sense
In the practical essence.....

everybody craves for another chance
to fall in love,tension sans
to feel candle light romance
to experience soul dance
of course,in the music of trance :)

Dedicated to all the Immortal lovers who have loved & lost :(



Heart is like a train!

Penning down all my pain,
No,there is no personal gain,
Just a fatal heart sprain,
Hurting enough to thump it like the engine of a train.......            

One day there will be heavenly rain,
Strong enough to pull down the train's chain,
Capable enough to make me sane,
Till then this desert will be insane!

I killed my Love


Yeah,i was single and ready to mingle.i was just returning from a break up...i mean,i had broke up recently.Not my fault(As usual),my ex ditched me coz she chose to marry an engineer instead of a jobless person like me.what could i do?come on,nobody gets a job before finishing studies and i was in the 1st year of my MBA.still,i had tried my best to be with her,but she chose otherwise.anyways,that is another story.Let us focus on my present freedom :P.yeah,i was drinking like hell and enjoying each n every moment.Frustrated?Me?Not really.or else,i would not have flirted with 2-3 new girls :P...Yeah,thats me.....The real me-BP-careless and a free soul as always!Thats my introduction......for the time being J

Just a month before my break up,i had appeared for MAT,Cat n IPSAT.i had scored 89 percentile in MAT,but i did not choose any college through MAT.i cleared IPSAT,but i did not join.And finally,after my break up,i got a mail from IIM-I J

This was jolly good for me.Gd/Pi was being held at Bangalore and i was desparate for a break.This was my chance to travel to a new place for a chance and i grabbed this chance with both hands and both legs.By the way,my best friend-Annie was staying at Bangalore J

Started the journey on april 13th 2011 and reached bangalore on april 14th.After freshening up,i rushed to meet my best friend-Annie.At that time,she was my only and lonely pillar of strength.I had dis bloddy habit of talking with someone after 6 pegs.So most of the time,i used to call her(of course after break up),and only god knows how many times i had said-i love you to her in drunken state :P still she never minded these bloddy antiques of mine,coz she understood my state of mind and heart perfectly.thats why she was my best friend J

Annie came to meet me with her roomie-Roshni.From the first sight,i was lost.till that moment,i had never believed in love at first sight....but exactly,at that particular moment,i felt something like that.I felt like a lightening had struck me,as if it will never strike me again.I knew nothing about her,still i felt a strange sort of attraction towards her.Anyways,i calmed my nerves and had dinner with Annie and Roshni.Then i went to drop them near their PG.at that time,Annie introduced me with Roshni.Aaaah....what a moment!As if this was the moment for which i was waiting J .That full moon,that cold breeze,that ice cream parlour(near their PG),everything seemed amazing.

The next morning i.e,15th was my birthday.so at 11pm me n my friends(i was not an alien at Bangalore)grabbed some(crates) beers and started gulping.At around 11:55 all of us were 3 beers down.just then Annie called me to wish me(yeah,she was the 1st to wish me).I talked with her,then i asked her about roshni.she started counter questioning and i had to speak out my heart.I said-i don’t know how,but i feel that i am in love with Roshni.Annie was furious.she said-what is this?you are just fresh from a break up and now you are talking stupid things?i said,no...i really love her.she said-no use,she is already engaged.My drunk brain shouted-no girl is engaged till she is married.A girl is only engaged after marriage coz real commitment starts after marriage.Can you believe it?Annie had put the loudspeaker of her cell on :O .and Roshni had overheard everything L.Shit man,i was screwed!

The next day was really tough.Me,Annie and Roshni sitting together in a restaurant and nobody was talking.That was really uncomfortable.Finally Roshni broke the ice and said-I have a bf,so you should not have any wrong impression about me.i said-yeah,fine...i was drunk...dats why i said like that.or else,i am quite reserved type :P.and Roshni n me became friends J

But there was a storm brewing up in Annie’s mind...after all she was the only one who knew me by my blood since i was a kid.That night,Annie called me and asked-r u serious about Roshni?i said-yes,i am.i love her.she said-what is this?u are just fresh from a horrible break up.please don’t do this,don’t drag pain into your life.i said-i lover her dear,i m in love with her,Annie replied-how can you dare to love someone who can never be yours?i replied-pyar hai,koi samjhouta ya business toh nahi ki jis se hum pyar kare woh bhi hum se pyar kare J
At that moment,this dialogue was enough to make Annie silent,but it was me...who destroyed the meaning of this dialogue later,yes it was ME!

To be continued..........


Soak no more

I saw a girl on sea shore
I felt something in my heart's core
After a few minutes,she was there no more
I wandered alone on the shore

After a month more
I saw her again near CCD door
My heart started an uproar
I found that her name was Simran Kaur :)

I became friend with her
We spent lot of time together
Finally i proposed her
And she said that her husband was working in Baltimore :O

At that point i was devastated to the core
My whole body felt sore
And my heart said-buddy,i can soak no more!

This post is an entry for the Surf Excel Matic #SoakNoMore Contest.

Big battle between Love marriage and Arranged marriage!

Well,i think that this topic has found no exact solution even after numerous debates till date.
The fight still goes on and will go on forever.

Marriage!unification of two souls,immersion of two hearts,a new stage of life,a new relationship,

a new responsibility,a new commitment etc etc.But,is marriage really necessary?cant two souls be one without marriage?does marriage prove our love?does marriage stabilizes our life?or does it curtail our freedom(enjoyed before marriage i.e,late night drives,roof top beer parties,casual flirting etc)?

Love before marriage or love after marriage?really,a mind boggling million dollar question :P

Some say that it is always better to know a person,to fall in love,to check compatibility,to know each other's likes and dislikes,to spend some time(at least 1 year) with each other before getting married.
I want to ask a few questions to these people.....cant we know someone after marriage?what if we find the person really compatible before marriage and suddenly the person changes after marriage(change is the only constant).what is the point in wasting our precious time in knowing someone who may never be compatible with us?

And the remaining just ask some baffling but practical questions - why should we love someone whom we can not marry?why should we come close to someone who can never be ours?why should we spend our time(and of course coffee bills) with someone who will enjoy his/her honeymoon with someone else after some months?

And for these people,i have another set of questions :P
is love a contract?does your lover signs a bond on first date that he/she will marry you?love just happens.it can happen anytime,anywhere and of course without warning....just like lightening :P

I have not experienced married life.but i am experienced enough in enjoying happiness in love as well as bearing the death like pain during break ups.In my opinion,marriage is not a social rule.it depends on two lovers.they are free to start a live-in relationship or thy are free to marry each other.the decision is entirely theirs.

And,as far as love marriage and arranged marriage is concerned,i will say that-we can never determine when and whom we will marry.we need a combination of love and luck to gt married with our lover.

May be,i can give a proper opinion after i experience the so called married life :P

till then,continue the battle here www.facebook.com/LoveYaArrange


A sunny day with Kyra

I could not believe my eyes when i saw the question by kyra-how you and i could live it up this summer together?
well my dear kyra,we will swim a lot,drink loads of lemonades and have some fun in the beach with lakme sunscreen :)